I’m pretty sure most of you will think I’m strange with what I’m about to tell you, but I’m going to bite the bullet and tell you all anyway!
I obsessively dress my boys in identical clothes wherever possible, especially on days out, where there will be a lot of people.
Like this:
There are a few reasons why I do it, the main reason being I think it looks so cute, especially in photos.
My next reason is a more serious one, a few years ago when JR was only about 2.5 we were at a children’s centre Easter fun day JR wondered off after I loosed his reigns for approximately 30 seconds. I couldn’t find him and I couldn’t see him anywhere. I asked a member of staff for help, but they needed to know what he was wearing – briefly I forgot I couldn’t think properly, panic had set in. The boys weren’t wearing the same. JR was gone for less than a couple of minutes, but it felt like forever.
If he’d been wearing the same as TP I’d have known instantly what he was wearing.
I now have a very real fear that he’ll wander off again, even though I keep my eyes on him. It terrifies me that I could lose him again, and I always remember those few seconds where I needed to regain my composure and remember what he was wearing.
Now should one of them wander off I know exactly what they are wearing instantly by looking at his brother.
Is this so wrong to do, when it puts my mind at rest and also looks so cute!
Do you have any odd obsessions when it comes to dressing your children?
Am I a little odd dressing them both the same?
Let me know what you think in the comments below.
YES! I used to dress my boys the same for this reason too – if one wandered off or hurt themselves etc, it would be easier to just match him up with his brother and reunite the family. Also, if you really like an item of clothing and you have more than one boy, why wouldn’t you buy two of them?
My boys are 10 and 12 now and have their own individual styles, but I still sometimes buy them things that are the same.
Yes, makes perfect sense especially after a scary experience and perhaps helps with their bonding especially if TP looks up to JR. Wearing the same clothes could be pretty cool!
Also LOVE the pic with them and the minions!!!!